Thanks to the A&E series “Hoarders”, there is a growing awareness regarding “Hoarding”. I for one am happy to see this situation addressed. A family experiences many challenges if there is a hoarder in their life. I truly feel the more it is talked about, the greater the understanding and less judgement. Many of us have a hoarder in our lives and we don’t know how to help.
Whether you refer to it as hoarding, excessive clutter or chronic disorganization, there are varying degrees. Hoarding can be temporary. It could be caused by a recent move, death of a loved one, divorce, birth or a toxic environment in your home or work.
A problem with excessive clutter could also be neurological, such as ADD or MS, emotional issues or addiction-there are several causes.
If the problem is severe and you are ready, it is highly recommended to receive therapy before you attempt to de-clutter.
What I do know is outside clutter is an indication or reflection of something going on inside you.
If you have a family member, loved one or friend with excessive clutter you should never nag, criticize, ridicule, judge or clear clutter without consent.
People with clutter issues are everywhere, on your street, co-worker, or boss. They come from all walks of life.
If you have clutter, try not to feel ashamed or judged by your clutter. I know several people who have a closed door to hide clutter.
If it is severe,it is best to seek professional therapy during the de-clutter process as well. And when you are ready to deal with your clutter, choose a Professional Organizer that you feel comfortable with who respects your boundaries and can trust with your purge.
Lurlene Anderson
Professional Organizer, Public Speaker and Writer
www.OrganizeYourWorld.Ca
www.LurleneAnderson.com
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